It is now the middle of summer and yes it is time to cultivate and express our “fire” element. One of the most important cultivating points is the expressing of it outwardly; the sharing of love and passion with others.
Imagine for example you are sitting around the campfire in the summer… the fire extends its warmth and beauty touching all of the people sitting around it. Yes, fire ignites other fires and naturally they become one. Just like the campfire, human “touch” is one of the best examples of expressing our fire of love and sharing the joy with our loved ones intimately. You can easily imagine your fingers as flames of fire that dance freely and spontaneously — not only touching the outside but also penetrating deep within with love and passion. It is so natural that when we talk and move from our hearts, our fingers easily follow and move in expressing our full feeling toward the other.
What do you think is one of the most important things about touch? Of course one of them is technique or skills – learning how to give a good massage. In fact there is never an ending to learning and enhancing these skills, especially once you have experienced the “energy”. In fact the more I learn, the more fascinated I become with this “invisible” magic of the art of touch. Yet feeling together and merging together, awakening the magic, is way beyond technique or skills.
No matter how much you study the techniques or skills, the most important point remains the essence of your own fire element.
I am very proud of my essence of “fire”. Yes, some time it is also a challenge, the explosive nature of my excitement. Do I have control over my fire? The simple answer is no. Instead I chose to extend my fire to others through touch – yes, I am sharing my fire with love. When I love someone, I want to jump in with 100 % of myself and express my love for them, yes that is the essence of fire – no hesitation to love and no hesitation to jump into the moment of connection. It is much like musicians who play their instruments together from their hearts. The more I open the body and mind, the better we play together the music of body, mind and spirit. It is more than techniques, it is about our connection and that is “love” in its purest sense.
This fire time is for me the most exciting time to be with my clients, helping them find their own music through surrendering to my hands and heart. We together feel the flow of joy and happiness throughout our entire bodies and mind. Yes, some time with tears, but also some times with smiles and laughter. The fire element opens up all of our 5 emotions and together we dance and feel all the emotions. Is it difficult? Absolutely not! Remember! Any two fires can merge and become one. Yes, that is the nature of fire.
Asami and I are going to Japan and we will have our first class of massage in Tantra course. Tantra massage is no more sexual than life itself; it is simply an extension of your soul and love. Touch as if you are touching the god and goddess of each other – with love, honor and sacred spirit. Don’t try to heal anything just trust your love and soul, invite the energy into your hands and fingers. Your loving energy will surrender to the combined current of the energy river. This river will take you together deep into both body and mind.
Gradually your partner will surrender to your hands as you surrender to your own spirit and beyond. Universal energy is being created between heaven and earth. Just touch your partner with 100% love and heart caring – without any expectation, gradually you will feel something inside of their heart begin to melt and merge with your hands (fire). When you feel the ultimate essence without expectations of anything, magic will begin to happen. It is the true birth of magic and the dance of two fires becoming one.
Yes, students will learn the techniques, and it will help them significantly with opening the body and mind, yet after that learning phase the massage returns the two lovers to a state like two little children, playing and exploring the mystery of each other’s energy. Tantra massage is not about sex nor for sex, but rather about respect and honor in the process of discovering we are the gods and goddesses.
“Touch your partner as if touching your god or goddess – with honor and respect.
Massage is not fixing them but honoring them.
Massage is simply the way of expressing your “love”.
Just like “fire” dance together with pure energy surrendering completely. Yes, 100%.
When two fires merge and surrender to each other,
both will find the supreme joy and discover the sacred essence of each other.
It is the sacred meditation of two people becoming one. That is Massage. “
My love and appreciation to you all,